The Relationship Thread

[Shervik]

Ok since this thread won't go away from my question, I pose another question just to change the subject.

What is your guys opinion on dating someone who already has a kid? There is a lot of teenage moms out there and they are now growing older and the father has fled the country, or something. How would you feel being a stepfather? or stepmother? I am not sure how I feel about it actually. I think it's one of those things you have to experience.

[WeaponTheory]

Ugh....I know the chances will be most likely in my case since I'm close to hitting 30. But damn I don't want to deal with that, personally I don't want a kid. But like I said, I'm getting to that age where the women will most likely have one. And eventually she's going to pin the child on you. All it takes is a simple "Watch my child while I go out and get blah blah blah, I'll be right back". Bam, you're auto-dad. So all I can say is, when that dreadful day comes for me, my choice of the decision would be based off my preference of what I want my child's gender to be, otherwise I will feel nothing for it. And also it cannot be a baby, because fuck that crying at night bullshit, that's another deal breaker for me.

[Izagar]

I rather have my own kids... Miscarried one and ever since then my body has wanted another... Like a lot.

Not saying adopting is bad, but the chances of a child growing used to and loving their stepparent is slim.

[GodHatesHipster]

Hard pass on kids. No way in hell I'd raise spawns that are not my own.

[WeaponTheory]

(11-03-2015, 07:36 PM)Izagar Wrote: Not saying adopting is bad, but the chances of a child growing used to and loving their stepparent is slim.

I say that really depends on the age. The younger the better. Wow, that sentenced didn't sound creepy at all. Also to mention that the parent has to play the role of "I give a lot of fucks about you" really really well.

(11-03-2015, 09:52 PM)GodHatesHipster Wrote: Hard pass on kids. No way in hell I'd raise spawns that are not my own.

*Pulls a Ryu and walks away from it all*

[WeaponTheory]

DO YOU THINK THAT IT IS BEST TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A PERSON THAT HAS MORE OF THE SAME INTEREST IN THINGS AS YOU OR LESS THAN YOU?

[Disk]

It has to be 50-50, everyone is different.

[Shervik]

(11-21-2015, 02:32 AM)WeaponTheory Wrote:

DO YOU THINK THAT IT IS BEST TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A PERSON THAT HAS THE SAME INTEREST IN THINGS AS YOU OR DIFFERENT THAN YOU?

Hard Mode: No 50-50

I think you can be different in a lot of things, as long as you really have one thing in common that youre both passionate about. Now the personalities may also be different, and still fit, like you fulfill eachother somehow. And sometimes she might open you to interests you didnt think of, like for example she really likes painting, you hate painting because you can't quite make it right. but then she teaches you to do it better, and you connect.

On a different note, I think when youre together with someone over a long period of time I think you eat off eachothers personalities and opinions, and maybe also interests. so you become more and more the same person. You become one.

[WeaponTheory]

(11-21-2015, 02:55 AM)Disk Wrote: It has to be 50-50, everyone is different.

HEY! You take your logic somewhere else, cowboy!

*rewrites question*

[Disk]

(11-21-2015, 03:10 AM)Slash Flash Wrote: On a different note, I think when youre together with someone over a long period of time I think you eat off eachothers personalities and opinions, and maybe also interests. so you become more and more the same person. You become one.

This.